Here’s an experiment…..
Get about 20 people together in a room. Give each person a blank sheet of white paper, and ask them to draw a picture of a house. For the sake of time and lack of artistic ability, tell them they have 5 minutes to prepare their house. Although some drawings may be similar, everyone’s perception of a house is different- some large, some small, some elaborate and some stick figured. However, it is more than likely that each house would occupy only a part of the whole page with each person starting their drawing at a different location on the page.
Get a different group of 20 people together in a room and perform the same experiment. But, before you tell them to start drawing, give them an “example” and show them a picture of a house that occupies the whole page. It is now more than likely that you’d see 20 large houses, all resembling, very closely, the previously shown picture by taking up the majority of the page.
My point? We are heavily influenced by the opinions, acts and overall perceptions of other people. Sometimes, that influence is so strong that we forget about our own and why we should have our own.
In this experiment, it is important to realize that although we’re currently focusing on a “house,” that “house” is only part of the page.
Hell, if they weren’t shown an “example” picture before hand, maybe someone would have drawn something a little different to describe the term “house.”
Sure, there are overweight people. Sure, there are even obese people. Sure, there are people who simply just want to lose 10 pounds. Nonetheless, many times, in their eyes, they’re FAT. Even when they lose it, they still see themselves as FAT? Why? Unfortunately, we have become accustomed to associating a quality with an overall person. We become so ingrained in that mindset that it becomes everything we are. FAT is a macronutrient necessary for survival. FAT, depending on its composition and structure, can be in solid or liquid form. FAT can be animal-like and plant-like. Now, I’m not telling everyone that they should walk around and change the name of FAT to ADIPOSE TISSUE. The point shouldn’t be lost in the name game. Rather, we should acknowledge that when a person is working and cannot answer the phone, they are busy. That temporary busyness is only a part of their current existence. When a child is sad because their parents decide not to buy them a toy from the store, they are temporarily in an unfavorable mood. When you come home from the beach and you’re covered with patches of sand, you are temporarily dirty until you take a shower.
Perhaps fitness goals could be as easily attainable as taking a shower if we really payed more attention to the words we use to describe ourselves. YOU may have extra FAT on your body, but that doesn’t mean you can’t lose it. YOU may have extra fat on your body, but that doesn’t mean you can’t train to run a marathon. It doesn’t mean you can’t train to deadlift 315 pounds. Train to improve performace- a quest towards a positive, and the fat melts off. Train just for the sake of fat loss- a quest towards a negative, and you just may end up worse, mentally and physically, than where you started. So, YOU may have extra FAT on your body, but that doesn’t mean you should feel it’s ok to be treated differently than anyone else. Body image needs to be improved, and people need to realize that the way they look is only part of who they are. I’m not giving up on exercise and good health to boost happiness at all. What I am saying is that we should stop blaming our lack of motivation to be better and to achieve our fitness goals on being FAT. If you want to do something about it, do it!
Imaganine how these people would be if they decided to lay down and merely label themselves or let others label them as disabled people.
I see dedication, relentless work ethic, pride, integrity, patience. What do YOU see? I don’t know about you, but I see athletes.